CATHOLIC MARRIAGE PREPARATION COURSE, CMPC
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Step 7: Living your
Life-long Marriage
Marriage is a marathon, not a sprint
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A successful marriage requires a long-term perspective and sustained effort over time. Here are a few ways to interpret this saying:​
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Endurance: Marathons are known for being demanding and requiring endurance. Similarly, a successful marriage often involves facing challenges and working through difficult times. It requires the ability to endure and persevere through various ups and downs.
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Commitment: Marathons require commitment to training and preparation. Similarly, a lasting marriage requires a strong commitment from both partners. This involves being dedicated to the relationship, working through issues, and continually investing in the partnership.
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Pace: Sprints are short and intense, while marathons are longer and require a more measured pace. In the context of marriage, this might mean that it's important not to rush into things and to take the time to build a strong foundation. It's about pacing oneself in the journey of marriage, understanding that it's a long-term commitment.
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Consistency: Training for a marathon involves consistent effort over an extended period. Similarly, maintaining a healthy marriage requires ongoing effort and attention. Consistency in communication, understanding, and support is crucial for the long-term success of a marriage.
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Adaptability: Marathon runners need to adapt to changing conditions during the race. Likewise, couples in marriage may encounter unexpected challenges that require adaptability and flexibility. Being able to navigate changes and adjust to new circumstances is important for the sustainability of a marriage.
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Overall, the metaphor emphasizes the idea that building a strong and lasting marriage takes time, effort, commitment, and the ability to adapt to the challenges that may arise over the course of a lifetime together.
Additionally, seeking support in a marriage is a wise and healthy approach. Marriage often involves navigating various challenges, and having a support system can provide valuable perspectives, guidance, and encouragement.
Your CMPC-presenters are always open to help you and your spouse explore effective communication strategies, understand each other's needs, and work collaboratively to strengthen the bond between you. Keep in touch with them!
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